You dont even know the truth about the accident. how can you judge someone just by what the papers say.
If it was your family or friends you wouldnt be saying "How awful that the neglience on someone else's part could cause such damage." Now would you? Grow up and think about it before placing such a cruel statement about someone elses family on here that you know nothing about.
Peole make mistakes [bleep]! Like i said before, what if it was one of your family members that was dead, or in critical condition? I don't think you would be saying the things said about your own blood now would you?
The Only person I feel sorry for is Mr. Kumar, He wasn't doing anything while the driver of the Acura according to the Police reports was either High on drugs or alcohol while driving like a maniac. and all this in the early morning. I would not say he deserved it but he certainly caused it by himself.
Why don't you read the report over, and you would see that it said MAY have been a factor. And if you don't know cops always have to put the blame on something, so just like these other idiots on here dont go passing judgments on some newspaper articles information, because you don't know [bleep] about those two in the car or do you know anything about the truck driver. You people are the kind of people that have to talk bad about someone else's life rather than focus on your own [bleep] up life
We have gone over this many times. Every time someone is killed while commiting a crime, people that knew them all say he/she was a nice person. And it is always the cops fault. HAH! So what? It could have been any of us in his path. But, we won't have to worry about him any more.
By your choice of the word "punk", I will assume you are just a youngster. That will explain your confusion. Sorry I won't continue this conversation. Grow Up! Oh, and I don't even know Carmen. LOL
laurenlynn... let me give you a little advice. It's obvoius to me that you have a connection to people involved in this incident. You should have let everyone know this from the get-go. That way all would have known where you are coming from and more understood your point of view. The other thing is don't get into the "bleep" because it just turns everyone off. If you know involved parties and want to let everyone they are good people do so without the insults.
In that frame of mind I will tell you that I am a retired police officer and I don't take offense to your statement "And if you don't know cops always have to put the blame on something." I will say that when it comes to accidents, yes we do try to find a primary cause. But many times I have concluded an accident report with "Primary cause unknown."
The news reports indicate that police feel DUI might be a factor. I am sure that BA test has been taken and will confirm/deny this as a factor. Even if it shows that DUI was a factor I for one know that even the best of us can make a bad decision.
In closing let me say that don't let your emotions over ride your logic.
That's just my opinion, but I could be Wrong.
I believe it is spelled karma, with a "K". I was in a similar situation to you on another thread about a good friend of mine that got in an accident on Hwy 4 and killed a man. I understand your feelings in that you obviously know this person/people that were involved and that you want to protect them and tell others to have an open mind about the cause of the accident. I came to my friend's defense as well when everyone was ripping her apart on this message board. But, I came to her defense without using profanity and in a very respectful manner, and you are not doing that. Part of posting on a public forum is to express your views and opinions, as well as other people doing the same. You have to expect that people are going to have different views than you do and that's what posting here is all about. When you use profanity and disrespect others, it makes you look immature and childish and diminishes the credibility of anything that you might have to say about the topic. If you want to really be heard by others, be constructive in your posts and also keep an open mind yourself as well. Others do not know this person/people like you might, so they are going to formulate their opinions based only on what they have read in the paper. Don't take it personally. This was not a personal attack on you. Say your peace in a respectful way, and understand that not everyone is obligated to have the same opinion as you do.
Laurenlynn, maybe you should not be so fast to pass judgments on other who are posting. If you dont think others can passing judgments on they family you are sadly mistaken. I have had a few family members "make mistake" as you so called it, that have made big mistake and I was all for the law coming down on then to the fullest.
From day one everyone knows that drugs, alcohol, not wearing seat belts, swerving and possibly speeding are no no's in life. So if anyone who goes out there and does things like that know better, so really how can you call that a mistake. What the drive it was no mistake.
Remember, the good in his heart. He was a good man, a veteran, an OG, a father, husband, brother, son, boyfriend but, mostly a friend to many. Those that didn't know him can not judge him. He lived his life his way, to the end. I miss him. My condolences to his family. My prayers go out to the familys and those involved/injured in this accident. Peace.
Posted on Wed, 04/30/2008 - 14:59 — by eneka
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